I wish she would stop trying to coax me into fights. It is obvious with some of the things that come out of her mouth what she is doing.
you know not to believe a word she says. she doesn't know what she wants and don't let her convince you otherwise. drop the rope and stop trying to guide her right now. unfortunately your not going to convince her of anything either. she's going to have to come to a conclusion on her own. just don't make it easy for her to do exactly what you don't want, i.e. divorce.
