Whatever you do, do not get in your son's way. Let him do what he will do. A son like that is not always a liability.
Let's get real here. He could potentially harm himself or someone else and he is adding to the stress of his siblings exponentially IF it continues for too long. He needs to get help (which obviously he has if he's been diagnosed)...just more help.
i disagree to an extent and agree with Sara. His W needs to see first hand what she is causing by her actions. she needs to experience it and maybe she will understand her actions affect others besides just herself. i say turn him loose (and all the kids for that matter), maybe something will sink in for her at some point. that's the exact reason i said to let them know they should not hide how they really feel from the W.
i think stopping the son from expressing his feelings will only enable the W even more in this sitch.
