Well, yeah -- when someone "done" who is walking out of my (our) house leaves a note on my computer where it cannot possibly be overlooked and then sends a 1,000 word e-mail that basically rewrites every moment of the past 18 weeks -- yeah, I find that to be curious. But perhaps I'm odd that way.
SP if you were so detached to find pleasure with another person , the note and the email would not mean a tinkers dam to you. So by finding a distraction you do yourself an injustice. Time changes many things and I believe that if you are putting yourself out there, there is a good chance you would regret it. Let W do as she pleases. Stay on the moral high ground for now. woman dont view sex as simply as you put it. We place much more emphasis on the intmacy of the act rather than the physical.
You do your children a disservice because while you are having your ego stroked ( so to speak and in your case, pardon the pun )you are removed from the sadness and loss your kids are feeling. Keep in tune with them here. They will be frightened of being displaced etc etc.
