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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
"I can get it elsewhere" text


I'm still faithful (read: celibate crazy) during all this, but I read this as "I can get it elsewhere because I am getting it elsewhere." Just my visceral take on it. Just think. Rethink. And protect yourself.

Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
The reason I ask about the sex is that I do think he has a right to know where you stand on this. If you're not against it (and that's a very personal decision), then that's one thing. But if you are, then you should tell him, and unapologetically, in my opinion.


Most definitely.


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac