Ok does this make sense? DB doesn't seem dishonest at all to me but a friend of mine told me once that the way I was dealing with my W seemed kind of counter-intuitive. I told him he didn't need to understand because I felt better about myself the way I was being about my sitch. He then showed support. So would you say dbing is counter intuitive in a way? I would say so until you decide something isn't working and you need to try something else. Hope I don't sound over-analytical about DB'ing but if I am that is better than over-analyzing my W's behavior.
