Sandi, My W has been playing games with me. Mainly with my visitation with my D2. Then when I confront her about it she acts like I'm the bad guy.
My W really has alot of growing up to do. She expects me to be a mother and a father to our D2 while she spends money on buying herself things. She turns things around like I'm not being a responsible Father.
Since my mom caught her kissing OM with my D2 in the car, she has been on her best behavior and acts like nothing happened. If her past is mentioned, I'm being Satan trying to tear her to pieces. She really is being manipitive. It is a tought battle, but I will get through it. I don't know her anymore. One minute she is mean and the next she is Satan himself.
I want my M to work, but it will take a miracle to change her behavior. I know God is able, but I have to get my focus off her. My W is still talking to OM but very low key. I'm continuing to detach though. It is kind of tough to detach how I want though since we have a child together.
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".