Its been a while since I posted but wanted to touch base with you. Things have been quiet this end, I had a lovely birthday in London with my friends which was great. My h and I don't talk now, only contact is via email at my insistence. At this stage I have needed to put up boundaries and it simply hurts too much to see him and to speak with him. He is fine with that, indifferent I would say. He makes no effort to contact me otherwise. There is no care, no interest in my life. No questions about my health, about my work which I am managing to get a little bit of over the next few months to tide me over until I get back to my main job in September. I have thought that this is WAH/MLC but he is so indifferent. He is still living with OW, maintaining regular contact with D7 etc. He has redirected all of his mail now to an alternative address. He is now not even behaving like he is angry anymore, just very polite and civilised in the emails. No anger or resentment. I am detaching because it is helping me that I dont have to see him. But i am grieving for the man I married. I am trying to move on every day, I have good friends and a wonderful daughter. But in the quieter moments I sob and sob. My health is still quite bad but am going back to hospital this coming Friday fora consultation so I am hoping for a bit more clarity on my sitch. I feel all hope is lost now for my marriage. It has only been 6 months but i feel what has happened in that time has been catastrophic. I hope that you are well Sandi. Looking forward to hearing from you soon I hope. I x
