I think that you are doing the right thing for you and for your son.

Take it one day at a time. Deal with things as they come up and not the 'what if this or that happens'. The what if's is what gets me all down and depressed.

Glad to hear that you had a good weekend. Your H probably knew where you were at and that may have caused him to act differently around the OW so she probably thought that if she texted you then it would ruin your good time. You did the right thing by deleting it without looking. Even I would have had a very hard time not reading it. Kudoos to you for that!!!!

I admire your strength throughtout this and I am proud of your progress. Keep going...you're moving in a positive direction!!


Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09