Have you flat out told him that you have no desire to have sex with him as long as OW is in the picture? Or is that not accurate?
He seems very immature, but then again I've already said that.
Puppy - No, I have not flat out told him that. I have refused several times, as you know. I continue to be conflicted with this issue. As crazy as this sounds, I feel if H was in a PA, I would not have sex. I don't know why I can't draw that line with the IA/EA. Maybe I'm scared. Okay, I know I'm scared. I'm scared it'll end things, I'm scared he'll leave, I'm scared if he doesn't see how good things can be, he'll drift farther away. God, I feel like I sound so pathetic.
Puppy - I realize how immature he's acting. On one hand I think I'm crazy to try to save the M. On the other hand, I know the person H is acting like right now is not my H or the man I married.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
