I've no idea Flynny, I didn't speak to her for long about the matter. She says about a week but I'm beyond caring - there isn't any point in trying to control her and I don't want to be some kind of pathetic girly man begging her not to go or guilt-tripping her. I'm more angry about the fact she was totally dishonest and evasive about the whole thing rather than the fact that she's actually going.

I have just sent an email to OM giving him an address to send a few belongings that W left in his apartment.

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)