This is something Puppy and I....though we agree on a lot...we very strongly are opposite on this. And you can find all the reasons on the board. The one you CAN'T use is that he's never seen it work. Nice guy does work. Not for everyone.
I have never seen it work for ANYONE. Not saying that it HASN'T, just that I've personally never seen it. Not only is it not effective -- esp. for a man trying to get back a wayward woman -- but it's emasculating for the man.
