Marriage issues

[Jman]

SG,

I have been focused on saving my marriage for the last 4 months, it definitely seems like she is playing me even though the reason she said that she became emotionally detached was my behavior, I have changed it and now its seems like I am on her string waiting to see what she want's to do? Heck since she has been gone since Friday night she has not called or texted me about the kids, or me or anything about the trip tomorrow...I mean not even asking about the kids!!!

Back then what made her fall in love with me from what I could remember was that I was always there to help her when she needed something, you see she was the baby of her family she moved down here to florida by herself not knowing anyone, I treated her as a friend and respected her, fed her, hung out with her, partied, etc...I was there for her...now she says she does not need that, but I know she does to a certain extent she thinks the kids will be resilient..Hello coo Koo..Coo Koo...Hell she can't even cook...She does not take care of the kids as good as I do, She is in this dillusionary state right now, she is bad at communication at home..But she has no problems calling and talking to her Divorced girlfriend and her coworker that has screwed up his 2nd relationship wanting and pursuing his third relationship with my wife!!! I have spent many a nights in emotional distress over this woman to only have her hurt me more by not respecting me as a man, husband or father...So What am I to do other than this? I want to go see another counselor and see if she is willing to do that...I have a gut feeling that she may say something to me sometime while in KY...maybe not we will see..I am currently coaching with someone and IDK maybe I want things to move a little bit quicker but at the same time It seems like the ball is in her court and I am helpless unless I set some boundaries and this talking to the coworker I believe is part of her confusion...