Marriage issues

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Jman,

When someone says always or never or gives you a percent...it is their perspective. Only you can best work with your own marriage.

That said....Taking the hard line is the AFTER THE LAST RESORT...NOT the LAST resort. If you confront her, you have to ALWAYS live with that. You have lots of other room if you don't.

If your goal is to save your marriage, do other things first...We can help you brainstorm....one of the coaches is your best bet.


This is something Puppy and I....though we agree on a lot...we very strongly are opposite on this. And you can find all the reasons on the board. The one you CAN'T use is that he's never seen it work. Nice guy does work. Not for everyone.

Don't confront and then don't out her unless you can't not do it. It seems to end a lot of affairs, but it does not seem to save marriages.

Your energy needs to be focused on saving your marriage....and that needs to be your goal if that's what you want to do. And to do that, you need to have her love you again.


So what was it that made her love you to begin with. And what are her complaints about you. Start there. Start over.