Why do you only have an oral agreement in regard to child support? You let this man take up way too much real estate in your brain. You need to focus on what you want and getting a life. He isn't waiting around, why are you???
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
I dont feel like I am wasting my life...I am very content in my life...I dont want another husband ,another man I have been married since I was 16 yrs. old I need abreak from being married and for the most part I am doing ok....family and God will help me thru this....
we have had an oral agreement for 2 yrs now and he has always paid on time .....until a few months ago.. I have contacted the Texas Atty.General's office and have filed for legal C/S...I was told at least 2 months since he is out of state...my main concern is our daughter and her welfare....I did not want it to come to this but he left me no choice.... thanks for your thoughts, I am always open to a different set of eyes... be blessed
Good morning, I also miss having a man to share my life with..but at this point I feel old and ugly....husband said some very cruel things to me about our sex life right before he left..he said them very subtly in a way I wouldnt be offended but as time goes by and I have had time to reflect on alot of things that were said it really has gotten to my self esteem. I know what he said wasn't and isn't true...it was his way I guess to take the guilt of off him for what he was doing but it put a big dent in my thoughts of myself...so for now my family and God is enough....but I do know what you mean, going to movies, watching a movie, lying next to someone and talk about the days events....yea I miss those things... Maybe one day off to work ...could you refresh me on your situation...what brought you here and how are things working out for you....I dont have much time to look stay busy thank God...check in on you later...any word on MWG update...
Honey, they do say such very mean and unkind things just to hurt our feelings and to make us feel as badly about ourselves as they feel about themselves.
You are making alot of progress, so please don't take any steps backwards. Don't start thinking about the nasty stuff.
Think about your future, your children.
((((hugs))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
I am so scared.....I just turned 54 with a 15 yr. old daughter...if it was just me then I would not of taken it so hard....but you know how much teenage daughters cost ...makeup, clothes, shoes.....and it scares me so much....I look at myself and see me as a unattractive loser...he has made me feel this way.. And I have come along way but lately I have been remembering so much stuff about things he said..... About all the lies....how he would look at me....dont know where all this is coming from....maybe just now totally letting go...I dont know but I am remembering lots of stuff And in my heart I know who I am and I am a good person...was a good wife am a good mother..but tell my heart that when I get that way...thanks for caring and checking up on me...
no counselor....no money....just lots of praying....I guess you could call Jesus my counselor...thanks for posting...need some friends who are and going thru this what we all call MLC...sometimes I wonder if it really is....or just an excuse in my eyes to justify my husbands actions
