You guys are right...I just have to get out of my comfort zone here and do what's right...You guys have convinced me that it is right...The problem I have is that I am driving tomorrow with my 2 kids and my niece 12 hours to see her family where she is there at the moment, her father is not in that great of health all of a sudden to bring this kind of thing up while I am away, I believe will not be appropriate or it may be appropriate depending on the situation...Heck she is there to get clarity on what she wants to do in our relationship...I know ..I know....I will have to see how it goes and play it by ear..I would rather talk to her when I get back..I don't want to be all uncomfortable there...


M:35
W:36
M:10 yrs
T:11.5 yrs
C: B7, G3
ED: 3/09
DB: 3/20/09
Served 12-8-09
Still going through the process