I have been trying to work on that one. It just seems that for the most part, we have had very little chance to even talk to each other lately. When we do, we either have an ok convo, or it starts going South, and in that case she just manages to control the talk. If she is not controlling the talk, she gets me so flusterred that I can't say anything, because I just want to lash out.

Edited for your protection.