Yes, Kimmie, it is hard. But it is not impossible. Trust and commitment after reconciling are actually easier for me than they were before the whole adventure. That is because I do believe that he is sorry. And he knows that I am sorry for the mistakes that I made. Now we are choosing to commit and trust with the full knowledge of what happens when one partner strays. We know the confusion and the pain on both sides, and we are choosing not to do it. Commitment and trust are more meaningful to us now than they were when we were amateurs, and young and in love.
