Yeah, I wouldn't have wanted to see you give her ANY heads-up legally, which I thought the letter did in a couple of places. Probably best to let it be for now.
Yeah I know... I've just never really wanted to go the legal route despite the fact that I'm so damn good at it.
Listening to her at the deposition she's still basically stuck in the same thought pattern that she was displaying at our separation... it is almost like her logical and reasoning ability hasn't changed at all. Meanwhile I've been developing an understanding of BPD/etc. and have a great deal of knowledge on how to approach her.
She is "bragging" about OM and her relationship in the deposition... meanwhile she's sneaking around behind everyone's back and not being honest with her family.
I just don't understand how she thinks it is going to amount to anything.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
