thanks... i am always careful, i like to think she wouldnt venture all the way out here, but u never know.

i also live next door to my in-laws, perhaps that keeps her away too...

i really have no interest in reading what she writes, it may have been a picture she was sending me, i dont need to see it.

i have read messages from her before, telling me to leave them alone, asking me to talk to her or messages that responded to texts i sent my husband to his phone.

i spoke to my husband, told him about the messages and told him i deleted it before i read it, that all that mattered is who was sending it.

i spoke with my phone company, they have her listed as a blocked number.

i have documented information and sent it to my attorney.

im assuming she is having some trouble in paradise. maybe she should try dating someone that isnt married.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09