Hi mdoodles, I am so sorry you are experiencing this. The OW is sick.
The OW is determined to drive you away. Her aim is to make you angry and sick enough of the sitch that you volunteer just that.
If I were you I would have read the text. Knowledge is power and you will gain some insight as to the emotional stability of the "P-B".
You need to be prepared to take it to authorities if you have to.
In the future please read it no matter how upsetting it might be to you. If you really cannot, have someone else read it before deleting.
IMO your H needs to also know OW is still harrassing you.
I agree with others she wants you out of the picture. She is getting desperate if she is making contact several times a day. She is showing her emotional instability and I think that could be dangerous. Please let as many people know as you can that this woman is doing this.
After the OW in my sitch assaulted me, I called the State Police. I also wrote an email to my mother and gave her as much information as I possibly could about her. Full Name, DOB, Address, Tel Numbers, Vehicle Registrations...YUP, all of it. I became my own PI. I made it my business to know all I could about her. I also wrote in the email that should anything happen to me or my son, she would most likely be the person responsible. I also wrote a brief paragraph explaining her connection to me.
I don't trust some of these OW....I think they become obsessed out of desperation. Each having their own reason for wanting our H's so badly.
As you read these posts....there isn't an OW in any sitch that actually is not threatened by the wife. As I see it they would rather see us dead than have to live with our existence in our H's lives. They are jealous and will fight and fight dirty.
I am concerned about your's and son's welfare now...
Watch your back even closer than before. She may end up stalking you. I don't want to scare you, she is a nutjob. You cannot predict her behavior now.
Stay focused on dealing with this. Tell others tonight what is going on....
Take care and (((((HUGS))))),
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11