I'm getting the impression from some of you that I'm being too nice to W. I have been the controlling husband in my W's eyes for our whole marriage. I'm trying to do a 180 from my old behaviors. I had no patience with my W, and if she did something I didn't agree with she knew about it. I sweated the small stuff our whole marriage.
Then just sweat the big stuff now. The cellphone is big stuff. So are a few other things. On the day-to-day civilities, yeah -- be nice. Just don't be a doormat.
