Well,I don't agree with that.

I didn't really have any other choice in this situation unfortunately. The car is in both of our names and that is why he wanted me to sell it. Someone was coming to buy it yesterday, and my check engine light was on (due to the spark plugs needing to be changed), so technically it was both of our responsibilities to fix that and I literally had 3 hrs to take care of it before the ppl came by to buy it. He builds cars and was literally the only person I could have called to help me. We still share a house(I take care of,he doesn't live in), bills, checking account for the time being so we do have to help each other out from time to time.

Maybe you don't know that I don't have any family here or any friends that know how to replace a spark plug. I don't feel like that gives him the right to be a complete jerk to me because I asked him for one favor after what he has put me through in the last 12 months.especially when it was for something that he has been pressuring me to sell.

I haven't asked for anything from him. I leave him alone, I don't call him, I signed all his paperwork, he has tons of money when I'm stuck having to sell all my stuff just to get by. He knows I have no one here and told me if I ever needed help with anything, hed be there. So something comes up when I did need him as.a last resort and I get "stop relying on me" its BS.

And I am journaling to get this frustration out.