Has anyone taken into account that maybe, just maybe it's all about growing into different people with different wants and different needs. We all grow and in doing so we change. What if these WAS are really the people they are meant to be in the grand scheme of things. They have pretended to be who we (LBS) wanted them to be and they wake up one day resentful of this fact because it isn't who they want to be. We (LBS) are stuck in the status quo of familiarity and are fearful of admitting that we can change as well. How many of us are jealous of the WAS taking care of themselves? Admittedly they do it in overdrive becoming too selfish, while we work through our issues and some of us become healthier and better people because of it. I am not a person who believes in God, but I do believe that all things that happen to us prepare us to be the people we are ultimately meant to be. Those who get stuck and do not learn and/or continue to blame others instead of accepting responsibility for themselves end up repeating the lessons until learned. It has taken me 36 years on this planet, 4 serious relationships, 3 engagements, a soon to be had divorce to learn who it is I am supposed to be.
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
