Want to run something by ya'll. This was my weekend to have the kiddos. Wife called me before we left for vacation and said her folks wanted to come up this weekend for the 4th, and I told her that was fine. I was scheduled to work Saturday also because I was off last 4th of July. So anyway, her mother came up to visit for the weekend, and I was fine with the kids being over there. I had to work Fr, Sat, off Sunday, and back to work again for M, and Tu. I get a text from her earlier today asking if she can bring the kids over to spend the day with me. I said I'm not home, and I won't be back until tonight. She says 'where are you ? This is your weekend to have them.' I said your mother came up to visit for the weekend. And I had to work F, Sa, M, and Tu. She texts back 'yeah and today is Sun your day off and you should have them. You don't communicate anything with me or the kids. They at least have the right to know when you're gone like this. You obviously have something to hide.'
So, she's mindreading and blaming me for the conversations that she's having in her own head!
I'm thinking about sending this back...
Actually wife, we did communicate about this. I was thinking about you and the kids when you asked me about this weekend and your parents coming up...I knew you wanted them to be able to visit with you and the kids for the weekend. I did the right thing for you, the kids, and your mother. Please don't mind-read ("you obviously have something to hide"). If you want to know what I'm thinking, or my intentions...just ask. I'll be glad to fill you in.
What do ya'll think? I'd really appreciate some help/feedback on this! Thanks.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Anyone? I could use some help/feedback from you folks. Thanks.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
