I would like to add that in some cases, it might help the was to separate completely. In other words, the was might be holding on just because they are afraid of hurting the lbs. Once they see that the lbs is doing ok, the was can leave without any guilt. I might be on this category because whenever we talk about our m, she always says "I don't want to hurt you." I always tell her "too late". Anyway, she still hasn't "pulled the trigger. She is keeping us in limbo.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
