Well after thinking logically about this for a few.I think I should just tell my W to do what she wants.If she wants to file than go ahead.If she wants to throw away a 15 year relationship, let the guilt be on her head.She is the one that is going to be destroying our family.Not me.I realize that I cannot stop her from doing what she wants.I kindda likened this whole thing to a game of chess.Its her move.I do love her and want to save the marriage but I cant force myself to make this move.Im sure that one day she will regret her decision.I just hope that I wont have any regrets by letting her do this.
