Can it get any worse?

[mdoodles]

i understand. u are not alone.

i hear what everyone else says, that we allow them to keep this going, without making firm decisions one way or another.

but it is extremely hard to not ml with them, we want that connection with them...and in some ways, it keeps it alive, and alive is what we want.

i have no advice to offer, because i am the same with the intimate contact.

to me, if he still wants to have it with me, he isnt so sold on ow, after everything that has taken place, and u are i are in the same time frame of 3 years, they still come back to us.

the other day my h and i were being intimate and he said maybe we shouldnt have sex, and i responded with, well of course im not, i dont plan on it, and yes, it did make him want what he couldnt have.

he was shocked and then wanted to.

so i hear what everyone is saying, but it is hard to resist them.