I think the new-found friendship with your XH is really wonderful....I like it that he shows an eagerness to contact you and spend time with you. I think you are great example for all of us, exactly what the DB principles are all about!!!!
I am so happy for you.....I don't know how to do happy faces...I am sending you one though!!!!
Perhaps with time your XH will tear down the brick walls and become more vulnerable to good opportunities with you again.
I still say that time and patience and treating them well is what has brought them back towards us in the first place. I can't imagine not being kind to him. I don't like his choice, it's not mine, it's his and he is still a human being who I love. It's that simple for me....
Your XH sounds like a wonderful man. Treating him kindly will take you far.
Your holiday sounded wonderful, I am happy for you and XH. Continue to DB, seems like the way to go....
(((((HUGS)))))
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11