.......He told me that he wanted S18 to go up there to "be part of his new family" as S18 had described it to me......
Correction: The word "NOT" should be between the "there" and the "to" in this post. H said that they were NOT his new family at all, and that was part of why H wanted S18 to go with him this weekend.....so H could show him that S18 was still his number one priority, and that any other relationship he has takes back seat to that.
However, S18 told me that he didn't want to go up there and have H lecture him in front of all these people that think H is "such a great guy" because they don't know the truth about him..... These feelings are of course understandable, but I think there is also a good sized dose of "don't want to help do the work" mixed in there too, and S18 was trying to enlist my support of his decision to "stand up" his Dad yet again.
S18 said he would come over today to talk and do some stuff for me here at the house. We'll see if he shows up......
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
