Saffie... Im with you. I also think the same as you. Although I don't have daughters to compare to, but Totally understand.
My h is so visual, I worry that once I do get old he won't be interested anymore. That's why im so worried about my relationship with him just being physical. I actually dwell a lot on it.
most times I don't think he actually loves me for me and who I am, just what I look like and the sex that comes with it.
Sorry doc to hijack your thread...
im glad things are going well.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.