NC~ I can't imagine what you must be feeling. You have every right to be upset.


But Donna is right. I don't think there is anything you can do at this point, but Maybe speak to your lawyer about it. She may have a different view on the situation. This is a strange man to your boys, and maybe there is something you can do to at least not let them spend the night with her while he is in the house. You don't know what kind of guy he is, and you want to protect your kids, come from it at that angle.

Worth a try.

I hope you had a relaxing 4th. ((((hugs))) my friend, im sorry you have to even BE without your kids on ANY holiday.

T

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.