Folks post what they believe. Sometimes it's a mob mentality, many times not.
I get rattled by a post, thread, when it hits a nerve with me. And if I pay attention to that, a nugget of truth is uncovered.
The only person we can control is ourselves. You've been walking a long hard road with twists and turns.. but have always persevered with your Kalni-Marianess.
Stepping away is great.. and vacations are better! I should take one soon.