Sorry you have to come here for answers, that means you are in a bad sitch like all of us here. There are alot of very wise people here that can help you. I have a very similar sitch. My W hates when I refer to her and OM and EA. She claims she is not a cheater, its not a A. Hate to disagree, but I am being cheated. It is an EA. They can call it something else if they like, but it is an A of some sort.
