Yep having a great weekend so far... went to a polo match yesterday with the kids, and afterwards had a bbq at our house, with 11 grown ups and 15 kids...great fun !
Today I lazed around at home, did some washing and just had a great time with the kids...went on our bikes to get some icecream and later on did a bbq for them.
Then my neighbour came over for tea, she and I really get along, and she's home alone often too, as her husband travels a lot. We have a great time together !
Hope you're having a good weekend too !!! Lots of love, xxxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders, Your weekend sounded delightful! I'm sure you and the children enjoyed yourselves.
Enjoy your week!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Cinders, I met OW and here is my take. The more "normal" they can make it--if they can pretend that nobody was hurt and that it is all one big happy family, then maybe they will get everything they want and he will marry her and they will be happy happy happy and she will get the place of the queen instead of the mistress.
Your OW is in an interesting situation, because you are moving on, your H is wondering about your dating, and he's not even divorced from you yet. Oo, if she can ONLY get him to divorce the wife....but gosh, wife isn't too interested now and triangles make the whole situation soooo much more intriguing. Your H is also disrespectful to OW by leaving her out of situations. She realizes she is second class and she wants to be "legit."
I was reading idea of "triangles." If two people have a lot of tension, a third person can take that tension out. Two will ally against one. And at first, it is H/OW for many of us. This is an element of drama: two allied against one. As the tension drops between H/W, OW is less necessary and tension between H/OW increases....
When W stops resisting, there is nothing for them to fight and now they have problems w/OW. Hmm.....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
WOW, I haven't been here for sooooooo long.... even the layout has changed !
I just wanted to come by and let you know that life is still wonderful !! I have been going out with friends and the kids are on holidays with H and his girlfriend...(the ow. They are gone for 10 days and very happy, and so am I !
I am enjoying my life to the fullest and it has been wonderful to realize that it is all within your own reach !!
I am so greatful for all that I have learnt through this crisis and I thank God that I made it through ! I hope all is well with my friends here, and I love you still so very very much !!! xxxx
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Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders, I'm so happy to see that you've posted. I'm glad you are doing beautifully and having a great time. I'm sure that the children are having a blast on their holiday w/their father.
Please come back to visit again very soon. We miss you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
