MIchelle Glad you are getting your own attorney I have heard other posters wanting to share one attorney but my best friend told me to NOT be cheap when it came to an attorney and I thionk that was good advice in my case
It is so difficult while they are still living at home when my XH finally moved out after 4 months of withdrawl, hardly tlking and staying out till all hours of night, it was so peaceful with him gone that part of the nightmare was over,,he was gone My XH did not want any physical contact post bomb slept on couch or elsewhere so I cant help you there But I might suggest you listen to your gut pray about it and do what is best for you right now put yourself before the DB efforts peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow