I cannot sleep for concern over what my xW is doing to my two small impressionable S's tonight. Right this minute she has them over at the OM's place camping out in a tent, in his back yard.
While I am no longer concerning myself with what she does on her own time, it infuriates me that she would continue to expose my S's to this sack of dung she thinks so much of. This is entirely unfair and harmful to my S's -- one should never expose one's children to a love interest except when things are serious and there is intent to marry. xW still refuses to acknowledge there's anything serious between them, and claims she intends to never marry again. If true, then why confuse and complicate the lives of our children with this cr*p.
And since this dirtbag is also an accomplice to destroying their family, there's even less reason for them to ever have any dealings with him.
I know xW thinks she's being clever, getting to spend time with her "boyfriend" overnight while not technically under the same "roof" as our S's, for legal reasons. I would not put it past her to sneak off to OM's house after the boys are asleep.
I also know there's really very little I can do about this from a legal standpoint. It seems the law turns a blind eye to these things, even if immoral.
To add insult to injury, because OM is an hour's drive away from here, she's going to fail to take our S's to church tomorrow. And I'm sure she's going to rationalize that the OM's presence is more "healthy" to our S's than a commitment to one's faith.
Should I write her a letter to state my view and to let her know that I disprove of her doing this, even though we both know there is little I can do legally? Or should I just continue to bite my tongue and suck it up? I am torturing myself -- what is the best course of action for the best interests of my kids?
