Yep, I totally agree. Who the hell knows what goes through the WAS head - crazy!!!
For my XH, it seems, much of it was financially or his debt driven (not wanting me to be responsible for his debt). I think it's more he didn't know how to turn around, walk back & work on our M. Much easier to start a new R (well so to speak). Not even saying we have a new R, because many of his walls are still up & I can only get so close. But, I'm ok with that & not bashing my head into a brick wall anymore! I think it knocked some sort of sense into me though ..... maybe .....
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)