Just read a piece in Orangedog's thread that I liked:
Originally Posted By: orangedog
There is a Zen koan, "If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him". At this moment I understand this to mean to me, "If you think you've finally 'made it', then you are just fooling yourself. The real work has just begun."
Thanks OD - great thought and right now I couldn't agree more (or be more in danger of falling into the trap).
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.