How long have you been married? Do you have kids? (I have only found this one thread for you so I don't see that info anywhere.) Why'd she say she wanted out? What are HER issues and what does she SAY are YOURS?
What changes does she want you to make? Also I highly recommend you re-read the section in the book about detachment and I believe there is a site HERE somewhere on what detachment is (check out faithfulH's thread for that site or link if you can't find it, b/c it's good to read every day when you need it).
See if that helps you stop staring and hovering around her b/c she's probably suffocating...and don't ask about OM please not at this time. Unless you want a divorce based on an affair and KNOW this for a certainty, why ask right now?Back off. Focus on you and something, anything that has nothing to do with her, and DO IT.... What are the 180's you are doing? How are you GAL? (getting a life, what NEW things are you doing to help you direct your life?)
Check out the parts on Detachment and answer those questions I just posted to you again...they are simple but tell us a lot.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
