Emotional affair wife won't admit

[Jman]

Hey Guys,
I just wanted to update everyone...The calls are still going on and my wife still has not decided what she wants to do with the relationship...I have changed myself into someone I really enjoy now and IDK what else to do...I just know that I have written proof that something did happen with her due to an email I was able to gain access to and I am following the DR as much as i can...I had a great 4th today with the kids and am Blessed to have had a safe 4th...I had to come back to this forum today bc I had thoughts in my head to expose this affair to everyone at her work and her family so that I am not looked at as the bad guy here..but after re reading this forum I won't do that...