he was back, i think

[lost-n-Iowa]

I would hold off on telling your son anything until you are absolutly sureof what is going on in your lives. When my H and I was going through this last year it came rightdown to the wire and I finally told my kids because we were going to have to move and I felt the time was right. A week after I told them, my H asked for a reconciliation and I agreed. Then I had to explain it to the kids agian that we were going to stay together. It really confused them even though they were happy about it. Don't rush into saying anything unless you truely have to. It is better to have concrete understanding about where your lives are going first. I am sure that you already know all of this but I figureds I would say it anyway Have a good weekend and try to not think about them while you enjoy the fireworks with your son or whatever you have planned.