Meant it more as a self reflective. Not as a confrontation. You gave her power over your feelings. You are doing right by detaching and acting "as if". I just wanted you to look at who she is right now. It helps with detaching.
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
