just got off the phone with the W. she texted and asked me to call her later. i said she could call now i just got home.
she started off by asking how come i've been ignoring her, blah blah, blah. i said i really haven't, i've just been busy because it's been so nice outside and stuff. she asked how i got over her so quickly, lol and i said," you know what, i've done some thinking about our past R and realized i was never a bad guy in the M. i didn't always say and do the right things 100% of the time, but i did always mean well. i know it wasn't my fault that it didn't work out, and know it doesn't make me a bad person."
she agreed and said i was never a bad person, and then went on about how much she f'n misses me
. . . and THAT, Senor JR, is how DBing works.
The key, however, is to KEEP ON DOING what has gotten you around Lap 1. Because there are many, many more laps, and the biggest mistake most people make when they get to this place (which you've gotten to very quickly, btw), is they then forget what it was they did to get them here, and they go all "melty man" and "needy/grabby" and the whole thing melts back down.
