Thats great! I cant wait till I can come home to my H again.

I dated a guy like that very early in my separation. I started to avoid invitations to spend time with my friends because it wasnt worth the fight that it would cause. It started to change me, and I hated that. Needless to say, I lost interest in that guy pretty quickly! I actually took that as a sign that I shouldnt be dating!

Has your H stopped drinking? How has that affected you? I wish that my H would drink less, but I dont want to have to limit my drinking, so it wouldnt be fair to ask him to. I will only drink a beer or 2 once in a while, but he "gets a buzz on", as he says, everynight.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...