OM a threat or just a friend? WAWs got an answer?

[Mr GK]

As I look at my friendships I can see how I spend time with a friend who happens to be a female. Her and i talked a bit, more her than I. I can see how my wife spent time talking to her OM.
I think there was an EA between them. it is quite possible that other than one PA occurance, that they are just frineds. I am not having an EA with my friend, and I ak keeping it that way.
She is having problems with her husband. She likes to vent to me. But I don't get too close. I feel quite lonely, and I don't have much opportunity to vent, to express my feelings.

Anyway, she must have been feeling a bit like I feel,when I was distant and put less attention on my wife andmore on others.
She wrote some poetry on lonliness. She chatted online with others, even some guys who wanted to talk sexual with her.

So, her OM, might be less a threat, especially as I continue to grow and she likes my changes. Anoter good thing, she and the boys are moviny again. This time several hours away from her sister and OM. Hopefully OM will stay there. And I am looking for a job in the new city. Luckily, the new city is only a few hours away from my friends and family.

So hopefullly this change will be good for us all.