when people here tell you not to talk to others about YOUR OWN SITCH, there are a couple reasons for this. 1) very few people really need to know what's going on in your life on that personal of a level, but more importantly 2) it helps you from reliving what's happened over and over. this is necessary or you will be STUCK in your current state of emotions.
JR, You're 100% right. And they don't want to hear it and they give well-intentioned but poor advice.
I talk to my IC, you guys, myself, and God. That's it.
As I posted the other day, whenever any of the well-intentioned ask, "So, how are you?", I say, "Better and better." Sometimes it's the truth, sometimes it's not. But it's my stock answer now that prevents many problems.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
