Jumping in (1st post)

[Gardener]

Gucci,

Hi. Thanks for taking the time to read up.

I believe there is someone else she is interested in.

I'm going to disagree. I know her.
Could I be wrong? Yes.

She is showing many of the signs that a woman shows when they are interested in someone else or having an affair. The biggest hint is that she seems to be "pushing the divorce."

But she's not pushing, Gucci.. The Bomb was 11/2/08. My wife referred to it as a one year "respite" at that point. She moved out 12/03/08, asked for a divorce 5/13/09, then said nothing about it for over a month and then agreed to shelve it for still another month. That'll be almost eight months at that point.

I think my wife thinks there's no hope...yet she hopes she's wrong. (did that make sense?)

The signs are there.

What other signs do you see that I'm missing?

And, Gucci, I'm not trying to argue, here, by any means. In fact, the dialog, the back and forth helps, me to think and re-examine aspects of all this.

Thanks.