(((glam))) I know this has to be so hard for you. Your H just isn't willing to look at himself. I hope for your kids that someday he can figure this all out but for you, you need to let go and live your life for you now.
You have been given some great advice here. I don't need to repeat it.
I hope you and your kids are able to have an enjoyable holiday. Maybe you should celebrate this as YOUR Independence Day.
