So, just saw a text on my phone from 4:30am saying we should talk today about plans for the kids.
So he texts to say lets talk basically a few hours from then.
I know it sounds paranoid but I know he does that to provoke me, show me that he is out partying til the wee hours...
And me, just becoming more aware that he wants to get to me and give up on the why. I have to see it as giving me some advantage regardless of how juvenile it is.
Guys, help me understand. Assuming he doesn't have an actual personality disorder, what's the deal with trying to "show me" how fab he is and how great he is without me?
