alright, i've done a little thinking about why i was so down last nite and i believe i know why now. anyone who is reading my sitch and is a bit new to the boards, when people here tell you not to talk to others about YOUR OWN SITCH, there are a couple reasons for this. 1) very few people really need to know what's going on in your life on that personal of a level, but more importantly 2) it helps you from reliving what's happened over and over. this is necessary or you will be STUCK in your current state of emotions. sometimes when people here give you their opinion or advice, they will tell you what you should do, but don't always give a clear explanation as to the "why" behind it. i think knowing that would help me greatly in some of my sitch's...
last nite i talked with a person (not a close friend, but kinda friend) whom i do value his insight into my current action being taken in my sitch. i felt better for about 5 minutes after talking to him and then it hit me like a bus. a huge wage of emotions came over me and i had an emotional set back to like 2 weeks ago. i'm done discussing my sitch with anyone except one close friend and everyone on this board. i felt way better when i had been keeping it this way, so back to it i go...
thanks for reading.
oh! and i did reply back to her question about the dog.
i took a picture of him with his new bone on the couch, and wrote "He's doing good =) only 1 accident in 5 days"
short and to the point and nothing else. not even a Happy 4th of July to her
